Head. Heart. Soul.
A heartfelt note for the graduating students of Eklavya, who will go further than they yet know.
Last month, I stood in front of a hall of students at an Ahmedabad school— eighteen-year-olds about to walk out of the only world they had ever fully known into one that would not stop changing. I had few minutes. They had seventy years.
There is a particular weight to that kind of room. The parents in the back, who had spent two decades putting these children through it, were waiting for something useful. The children themselves were waiting for something true. And I was thinking, as I always think before talking to young people, that whatever I said had better be the kind of thing a person could carry for forty years without it breaking.
So I gave them three words.
Head. Heart. Soul.
I am writing them down here because I think they belong to more than one room.
Head
Keep your head curious. For the rest of your life.
The world the eighteen-year-old of today is walking into is not the world we walked into. AI is redefining what work means. Half of what they have learned in school will be commodity within a decade. Their first job and their fifth job will be different industries. The skill that matters most is not what they know today but what they are willing to learn tomorrow.
The most dangerous words a person can say after the age of thirty-five are I already know this.
Be a lifelong learner. Learn, unlearn, relearn. Stay a student.
There is a story I told them about the founder of their school, Sunil Sir, that I want to tell you too. He is the kind of man who walks into a room and you can tell, before he opens his mouth, that he is several things at once — entrepreneur, educator, sportsman, reader. The kind of man children call Dhurandhar.
But here is the thing he tells on himself.
Until Class XII, Sunil Sir had read very little. He grew up in the schools of Hyderabad and was, on his own account, unremarkable. Then a librarian — Mrs. Fatima at the Hyderabad Public School — opened a door for him. Books arrived. Then debates. Then drama. Then horse riding. Then a life across consultancy, packaging, pharmaceuticals, ADR, and finally a school of his own.
The man who is now an institution was, at seventeen, a boy who had not yet been introduced to a library.
This is what a learning curve looks like. Not a steady upward arc but a series of doors held open at the right moment by the right person. Your job, for the rest of your life, is to keep walking through them.
Heart
Keep your heart strong. The world is going to test it.
You will hear no more often than you will hear yes. You will fail in front of people whose opinion you care about. You will feel, on certain Tuesdays, that the universe has personally decided to break you. None of this is unusual. All of it is part of the curriculum.
The trick is to remember that no is not the end of a sentence. It is the end of someone else’s sentence. Your sentence keeps going.
There is another phrase Sunil Sir uses that I have stolen and intend to keep stealing.
He warned the parents in the room about becoming Dettol parents — the kind who sanitise every surface their child might brush against, who clear every obstacle from the path before the child arrives, who build a childhood so smooth it teaches the child nothing about friction. The phrase made everyone laugh. Then it made everyone uncomfortable. Then, in the way real phrases do, it stayed.
A life worth living is not a sanitised life. It is a resilient one — and resilience is not a personality trait. It is a muscle, built by being allowed to fall. Build that muscle in the people you love. Build it in yourself.
Even your failures, if you have lived properly, will be better than most people’s successes.
Soul
Keep your soul alive. This is the part most people forget.
Find what makes time disappear for you — a sport, an instrument, a craft, a language, a cause, a corner of the world that calls you back. Whatever it is, do not let the years take it from you. The world will get loud. Everyone will have an opinion about your career. Few people will care about your soul.
You will. Or you will pay for the neglect later.
I have known too many men in their fifties who built brilliant careers and quietly misplaced their souls along the way. The career still works. The soul does not. The wife notices first. Then the children. Then, decades late, the man himself.
Do not let that be you. Build a life with weather in it — work and stillness, ambition and rest, building and reading, the boardroom and the long walk. The Sunshine Life is not a slogan. It is the discipline of refusing to live one-dimensionally in a century that rewards you for doing exactly that.
And one more thing. I told the students this last, but it should have been first.
Give.
You have all received more than you can ever return. From your parents. From your teachers. From a school that taught you what to think and, more importantly, how to think. From a country that gave you a passport and an education. From a century that handed you, almost as a parting gift, the most powerful tools any human generation has ever held.
You did not build any of it.
You can only do one honest thing with what you have been given. Pass it on. Help one person rise. Light one path. Plant one tree whose shade you will not see. The Eklavya tradition of Khari Kamaai — the small earnings the students themselves contribute to rural schools — teaches that giving is not what you do after you have enough. Giving is how you become enough.
Sharing is not charity. Sharing is the condition of a soul that has remained alive.
So I will leave you, as I left them, with the three words.
Head. Heart. Soul.
Keep your head curious. Keep your heart strong. Keep your soul alive. And when you can — give.
Because the world ahead will not just need intelligent people. It will need thinking minds, resilient hearts, and generous souls.
In a century that keeps changing the rules, the head helps us adapt, the heart helps us endure, and the soul helps us remain human.
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